Whilst this is theoretically a fashion blog
and not just a painful insight into my inner turmoils, I’m going to nonetheless utilise
it as a vehicle to express my current hair issues.
Ultimately, I’m in a hair rut. The length
is awkward, the colour is dull and every time a Pantene commercial comes on my
sanity is comprised as I sit wondering why my hair doesn't blow seductively when I walk or shine like strands crafted by angels. But in all
seriousness, I’ve tried treatments, new shampoos, conditioning three times per
shower and all the wives tales but NOTHING works and it's basically now just way too
dry for life.
At risk of sounding superficial, I truly
believe a good hairstyle culminates into a sense of self-actualization, which
is evidently important as according to Maslow’s Hierarchy of Needs such is totally necessary to live an all-encompassing, fulfilling life. It just seems that all my friends lately are
so confident and beautiful and whether they are rocking pixy cuts or lengthy locks, their glossy, shiny hair just gives them that
extra exuberance; I WANT THAT EXUBERANCE. Conversely, hair is most definitely a reflection
of ones style so before you start suggesting I rant to a beauty blog, I’m going
to justify the existence of this entry by stating; hair is indeed a fashion statement. Not
only does it undoubtedly reflect ones sense of style, but the way you do your hair
can completely add to or take away from an outfit. For example, what is the point of
wearing a backless dress if a sleek, high ponytail does not accompany it?
Furthermore, a plain outfit can look repetitive, but complimenting it by
wearing your hair out can take it from plain and boring to simple and chic.
However, due to my current indisputable awkward length hair, I'm constantly met with nuisances such as too-short pony tails that look like whale
spouts and buns that just don't cooperate with me.
Whilst on the topic of hair frustrations, I
can’t possibly fail to express my annoyance regarding BOYS and their
idiotic hair decisions. I may be biased by my obsession with long hair on guys,
but I can’t help but notice this horrible cycle the male species endure. It seems that
WHENEVER a boys hair grows to that cute ‘I just got out of bed and yes it's
naturally messy and I’m basically now great at life’ length, THEY SHAVE IT OFF!!!! This is terribly frustrating and most commonly
leads to their physical demise as an individual (until it grows back again of
course). I’ve had so many legitimate arguments with my close male friends regarding such universal boy stupidity to the point where I’m pretty sure they start
wanting to shave their hair purely to spite me. But seriously, unless you
totally own the shaven look (and if so, then good on you go for it) Do. Not. Shave. Your. Head. Not only
does hair individualize your style, it makes you look cute even
when you’re being annoying and gives you something to flick Justin Bieber style
in an awkward situation. It is beyond me why anyone would consider shaving it.
So anyway, i've decided I'm going to get all my split ends cut off next time I
get paid and spontaneously colour my hair in hope such will lead to a sense of self actualization. I'll be sure to enlighten all you, clearly very interested, responders when said event happens.
Xo B